Pastor Edgar Mayer; Living Grace Community Lutheran Church; Message on Mark 14:1-11; Date: 17 February 08

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Why This Waste

 

A woman had just poured out $50,000 over Jesus’ head which generated a response – harsh words from other Christians who said: “ … Why this waste? … “ According to the Bible the woman had come – I quote from Mark 14:3-5: “ … with an alabaster jar of very expensive perfume, made of pure nard. She broke the jar and poured the perfume on Jesus’ head. [Then] some of those present were saying indignantly to one another, ‘Why this waste of perfume? It could have been sold for more than a year’s wages and the money given to the poor.’ And they rebuked her harshly

Why did this woman waste a small fortune on a questionable outcome? Perfume is good in small quantities and Jesus might have appreciated to freshen up with dabs of expensive alabaster but to be drenched in the fragrance of luxury would have been a little overpowering. The gift made no sense. Yet, the woman was not restrained by practical matters or cautious modesty or the immense cost of her action. This woman wasted the most expensive item in her possession on Jesus because she loved him beyond logical calculations with absolute abandon. This woman loved Jesus. She loved Jesus.

And not so many weeks later even those that were at the start upset with her must have changed their minds because this woman was at least one person among the many followers of Jesus that did not disgrace him when the going became tough. This incident happened just before Jesus faced his final persecution and then death. The Bible introduces the story of the woman’s love gift with these words – Mark 14:1-2: “Now the Passover and the Feast of Unleavened Bread were only two days away, and the chief priests and the teachers of the law were looking for some sly way to arrest Jesus and kill him. ‘But not during the Feast,’ they said, ‘or the people may riot.’”

Thank God there was at least one person that did not bow to the pressure of persecution. Everyone else either betrayed Jesus or denied him or simply ran away. Only the woman lavished love on him and by her action she somehow made us humans look better. Now we want to tell her story but back then we were indignant.

This reminds me a little of the book which I read about the Christian resistance to the Nazi regime in Germany. There was not much to tell. The book only mentioned about three names again and again because most people either betrayed others or denied them or simply ran away. However, at least there were the odd ones whose story we can now tell. Otherwise the shame would have been even greater. Thank God for the woman and her $50,000 love gift.

Let’s take in more slowly what actually happened. Why did the others get so upset with the woman? It wasn’t their money. A Christian businessman was traveling in Korea. In a field by the side of the road was a young man pulling a rude plow while an old man held the handles. The businessman took a snapshot of the scene and said to the missionary who was interpreter and guide to the party: “I suppose these people are very poor

The quiet reply was: “Yes, those two men happen to be Christians. When their church was being built, they were eager to give something toward it, but they had no money. So they decided to sell their one and only ox and give the proceeds to the church. This spring they are pulling the plow themselvesThe businessman was silent for some moments. Then he said: “That must have been a real sacrificeThe missonary answered: “They did not call it that. They thought themselves fortunate that they had an ox to sell

This is again difficult to understand. We may feel like becoming indignant and charging these two Koreans: “No wonder you are poor. Business lesson 101 is that you don’t sell your means of production because it puts you at risk of further poverty and downgrades your future offering potential

However, our indignation is wrong as was the indignation of those that rebuked the woman and her gift of perfume. Jesus said – Mark 14:6: “Leave her alone. She has done a beautiful thing to meJesus defended and understood what we may struggle to understand. These people loved him and it was love that made them wasteful. They loved him!

The question is: Do we love Jesus or do we approach our faith from a different angle? The indignant people said among themselves – Mark 14:4-5: “ … Why this waste of perfume? It could have been sold for more than a year’s wages and the money given to the poor … “ And they were right and their reasoning was pious. The talk about helping the poor made good religious sense. Jesus himself had demonstrated that helping the poor was one of God’s top priorities and he had said on many occasions – Luke 12:33: “ … give to the poor … “ Luke 14:13: “ … When you give a banquet, invite the poor … “ Therefore now he should have commended the indignant. Only he didn’t. This time he said – Mark 14:6-7: “Leave her alone … The poor you will always have with you, and you can help them any time you want. But you will not always have me

Do we love Jesus? Do we pour out what we have on him because we love him so? Can we say what I heard a preacher say only this week: “I’m so in love with Jesus. He’s won my heart”? Can we say that? The truth is that love should be at the core of our faith but many a time it is not. Like the indignant people pointing at the wasteful woman we – many a time – look in from the outside at love – a broken jar of pure nard on Jesus’ head poured out by a laid-down lover – and we do not understand the emotion.

And what we don’t understand, we usually attack. The woman was rebuked harshly by the other guests and we likewise may and do get irritated and angry when there is too much intimacy with God – when people seem to go overboard – lose themselves in worship – pour out strong emotions of utter abandon toward Jesus. What is going on?

Many a time we have more in common with the people who would not pour out anything on Jesus but sell the perfume – forsake the intimacy – and give the money to the poor. Is it not true? When we practice our faith, we are rather task-orientated (money to the poor) – focused on religious duties and action plans instead of love. For instance, when we pray, do we allow ourselves the time to praise and simply love on Jesus? Can we do that when there is intercession to be done? Don’t we have to get busy and launch into our many prayer requests – sell the perfume of being there for Jesus and instead get busy?

The secret of being in love with Jesus is that any moment spent in his presence is precious and glorious. Worship becomes the most favourite occupation but again is this not selfish? Why waste so much time and perfume on Jesus when the poor are waiting for help.

Jesus defended the woman and he defends whatever we give him in love. We need to understand that with God everything is about love because he is love. Jesus came from heaven to earth for love – so that he would love us and we would love him. God created us for intimacy with him. This is what God wants.

A preacher went to an evening service in a Presbyterian church. The congregation was singing the usual songs of praise. When it was time to speak, the minister rose and began to introduce him. Suddenly, to the right of the minister, the preacher saw Jesus. Jesus was standing there with the loneliest expression he had ever seen on any face. His soft brown eyes overflowed with tears, which began to pour down his cheeks and drop silently at his feet. There was no noise, no sobbing, and no movement of anything except for the tears as they silently streamed down his face and dropped to the floor. The sense of his loneliness filled the preacher’s being. He wanted to comfort Jesus. How lonely he was, even in the midst of all his people.

            Jesus disappeared as suddenly as he had appeared. The preacher knew in an instant why he had been weeping. He was lonely because, in spite of all their self-centred singing about him, he himself was completely ignored. No wonder he wept. Of course he was lonely. All the preacher could say was, “Now, let’s worship JesusImmediately it seemed as if the Holy Spirit flooded the sanctuary … (Roxanne Brant: Ministering To The Lord, New Kensington: Whitaker House 2000, p34-36). Is Jesus lonely in our worship because not much that we do is actually loving him.

At another time Jesus said in the Bible – Luke 13:34: “O Jerusalem, Jerusalem … I have longed to gather your children together, as a hen gathers her chicks under her wings, but you were not willing … “ Jesus has always longed and keeps longing for his people. He wants us to snuggle up to him like chicks under the safe wings of the mother hen. But we so often are not willing and get busy with other things.

The Bible also talks about us – Philippians 2:1-2 – “being united with Christ … comfort from his love … fellowship with the Holy Spirit … tenderness and compassion … “ God promises intimacy. God desires intimacy. One more Bible verse – Ephesians 1:4-6: “ … In love he … adopted us as his children through Jesus Christ … “ In love God adopted us and he is a parent that loves to spend time with his kids – us. Love him back with perfume – the best fragrance you have.

And coming back to the other type of Christianity – the indignant advice of selling the alabaster jar for money and then give it to the poor – this won’t happen either. Unless we know about Jesus – unless we are wrecked and ruined by him – overflowing with love – sustained by his love – there won’t be much love for anyone else either. Even the words “give money to the poor” do sound rather cold. The poor are not faceless. They are not an anonymous entity: “the poor”. They are made up of individual people with names and every one of them wants more than money. They want love – the same wasteful love which the woman poured out on Jesus – and if we cannot love Jesus – who is altogether lovely – then we won’t be able to love anyone else either. When Jesus came to save the world, he did not simply save “the sinners”. He saved you and me and he knew you and me by name.

Do we want what the woman had? Do we want to know what it is to love Jesus – even at the risk of becoming wasteful with expensive perfume? That’s what I want. Our home has many bookshelves with many learned academic books on the Bible and doctrines but I am getting tired of many of them. Especially the more expensive ones seem to be written by religious scholars who do not seem to know God and who do not seem to love him. There is page after page of Bible exposition and page after page of expounding core doctrines but nowhere even the tiniest glimpse of any experience or love of God. For that reason I go back to the older scholars (and their editions are cheap) – Luther, Spurgeon, Finney, … – because you cannot read, for instance, Luther’s commentary on the Bible book of Galatians and not at the same time be impacted by something real: how much he experienced what he wrote.

I quote him to you and please listen to his passion: “ … I have often proved by experience, and I still daily find, what a hard matter it is to believe (especially in the conflict of conscience) that Christ was given, not for the holy, righteous, worthy, and such as were his friends, but for the ungodly, for sinners, for the unworthy, and for his enemies, who have deserved God’s wrath and everlasting death.

Let us therefore arm ourselves with these and like verses of the Holy Scripture, that we may be able to answer the devil (accusing us, and saying: You are a sinner, and therefore you are damned) in this sort: ‘Christ has given himself for my sins; therefore, Satan, you shall not prevail against me when you go about to terrify me in setting forth the greatness of my sins, and so to bring me into heaviness, distrust, despair, hatred, contempt and blaspheming God. As often as you object that I am a sinner, you call me to remembrance of the benefit of Christ my Redeemer, upon whose shoulder, and not upon mine, lie all my sins; for ‘the Lord hat laid on him the iniquity of us all,’ and ‘for the transgression of people was he stricken’ (Isaiah 53:6,8). Wherefore, when you say I am a sinner, you do not terrify me, but comfort me above measure [because you drive me to Christ.]” (Martin Luther: Commentary On Galatians, Grand Rapids: Baker Book House 1998, p38-39).

When Luther writes you can smell the fragrance of his love for God because he has come to know the God who comforts him – who loves him – above measure – when the devil is against him playing on his conscience with accusations, fear, distrust and despair.

Do we want what he had and do we want what the woman had and what any Christian can have, that is: love – at the core of our relationship with God? Yes, we do. We are tired of any other religion – of dry books and indignant advice. We want to know the wasteful love that sacrifices more than a year’s wages on a single act of love.

How do we get this love? Let God convict you of the truth. He made the first move. Before you even considered doing anything in his name, he took his most precious jar of perfume – the fragrance of Jesus – broke the jar of his body and then poured out all of him – his sweet sacrifice of his blood – on you – for the forgiveness of your sins – covering you with Jesus’ fragrance of holiness.

The Bible story of the wasteful woman happened just before Jesus faced his final persecution and then death. And – as we know now – Jesus faced the agony of what was to come and the shame of what was to come and the wasteful extravagance of sacrificing his very life – he faced all of that for love – love toward us. At the beginning of these events only the woman grasped the heart of Jesus and in return poured out everything she had on him but after these events – contemplating his suffering and the cross of his death – we may now all join the woman because by these subsequent events Jesus proved that he was worth every drop of alabaster perfume.

In the next 35 days leading up to Easter let God convict you of the truth as we read and meditate on Jesus’ story – Bible passages like Mark 15:19 – I read: “Again and again they struck him on the head with a staff and spit on him. Falling on their knees, they worshiped him. And when they had mocked him, they took off the purple robe and put his own clothes on him. Then they led him out to crucify himGod the Father did break the most expensive jar of the body of his only begotten Son Jesus – for you and me. Receive the fragrance. Receive the love. Be drenched in forgiveness, holiness, eternal friendship with God, mercy, … Don’t rush off to the poor – there is time for that later – but worship and dwell in the presence of God and receive his love.

God will confirm his word – his truth – by working faith in you and love. Whatever may cause you feelings of indignation, fight them and simply allow God to love you – spend the time – seek the gift and it will come – Ephesians 3:16-19 – I quote from the Bible: “ … Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith … you … may have [will have] power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge – that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God” – and I may add – “that you likewise then have love that is wide and long and high and deep – ready to break the jar of your alabaster perfume and waste it – and love it – on Jesus.

This is how Jesus concluded the story. He said – Mark 14:6-9: “Leave her alone. Why are you bothering her? She has done a beautiful thing to me … I tell you the truth, wherever the gospel is preached throughout the world, what she has done will also be told, in memory of herThe name of the woman is forgotten but not her act of love because her kind of love belongs to the gospel – the good news of friendship with God in Jesus Christ. Hear the good news and learn to love him. One day we will all say and we will all mean it: “I’m so in love with Jesus. He’s won my heart.” Amen.

 

[Further observations: They were in the house of Simon the leper whom Jesus presumably healed. Remember the house in which you are and the healing that Jesus has already done.

The woman did not wait for the moment of maximum affect but came up to Jesus while he was still eating. Love cannot wait.

Then, while the woman’s name is forgotten, Judas’ name is remembered (vv10-11). Love doesn’t make a name for oneself … ]